Kelly's brother Nicholas and his fiance Aviva got married in Cape May, NJ on August 20th. The weekend really began on Thursday night with the arrival of Kelly's parents from Seattle. We all went out to dinner that night. It was the first time I had met Kelly's parents. It was cool, especially getting to see Kelly and her mom interact.
Friday morning Kelly and her parents headed up to Cape May, NJ first. I left about 3 PM to head up. The drive up wasn't too bad not much traffic at all, took me about 3 hours after stopping at my place. I arrived at The Manse at about 7 PM. It is a bed and breakfast that we were staying at for the weekend. The members of the wedding party that are related to bride and groom (and their guests) were staying at this location.
It is an interesting place, I had never stayed in a B&B before so it may be similar to others. For me it was a little creepy staying in someone else's house with all their pictures and such. There are 8 rooms and Kelly and I were in room 8. Some rooms had their own bathrooms, others like ours had to share. There wasn't AC in the house, but there was room units in each room. Our room was also special in that it was the emergency exit room. As a result we had no lock on our door, a light outside the window shining in and a glowing exit sign.
After cleaning up Kelly and I headed over to the rented house that all the rest of the wedding party was staying at. I got to meet all of the other people in the wedding at the dinner. Most were from the east coast (DC-NY) and a few from the Seattle-Tacoma area. They ordered in Mediterranean food. After dinner we all walked to the city center to get ice cream.
The next morning we experienced the breakfast part of the place we were staying. The owners of the place made a silly amount of food. Fresh muffins, peaches and creme, ham, eggs and several other things I can't remember now. The rest of the day Saturday my schedule was pretty free. Kelly had to go to various brides maid related occasions. I spent it relaxing, playing on the computer (they had wi-fi) and reading. I also went to find a shirt for the rehearsal dinner since I forgot to bring one. I found the only store in all of Cape May that sold men's clothing. The majority of what they stocked was Tommy Bahama which is nice but really expensive, I found a shirt about half the price. It is quite nice, if not my usual style.
Walking around Cape May was an interesting experience. It seems pretty much no one actually lives there. The town is full of B&B's, rental houses and small hotels. Someone said the town has one of the highest population swings from on and off season. Another oddity for me was the fact that you had to pay to go on the beach there. I am used to places like VA Beach that have beautiful free public beaches.
The rehearsal dinner was on Saturday night. It was held at a mansion that had a 50's museum in it as well. The dinner was quite a bit larger than usual, like 80 people. Basically anyone that was in town and related to the families was invited. It started with a raw bar, fruit, cheese and various hours devours. The main meal was a buffet style. They had a bunch of tasty choices. For dessert there was an ice cream social. Everyone in town that wasn't invited to dinner was invited to the ice cream social. There was about 150 people there I think.
Sunday we got up and had another massive breakfast. This time it was homemade blueberry pancakes. Kelly didn't get to have any since she had to begin the preparations for the wedding, she wasn't thrilled about that. I again was free for the early part of the day so I just hung out and relaxed.
I left for the wedding a little after 2 PM. There was a trolley to take people, but I drove myself so I could leave when I wanted. Everyone started to arrive around 2:30-2:45. It was an outdoor wedding in a vineyard. They had setup lots of lawn umbrellas and were handing out water, lemonade and iced tea. It was about 90 degrees and very high humidity as well. Needless to say it was quite hot, people were trying there best to stay cool by removing jackets and staying in shade. It could only do so much though.
The wedding was scheduled to start at 3 PM, but didn't get going until about 3:15. This was the first Jewish wedding I had ever been to. Many things are similar in the traditional wedding sense. A good portion of the ceremony was done in Hebrew and then repeated at least in part in English. It wasn't a very long ceremony which is always good, especially in the heat.
After the ceremony everyone adjourned to the garden right next to the chairs for more drinks and hours devours. There was a large selection of snacks both on tables ready to go and being circulated by the wait staff. The mingling went on for about an hour or so. Afterwards people started to move to the tent for the next part of the evening. It was a large tent to seat the 300+ people and had a dance floor and a live band.
The action in the tent started with speeches and dancing. Then there was a traditional Jewish dance with groups in a large circle. It ended with Nick and Aviva being hoisted up on chairs and carried around. Later there was a ceremony with a Rabbi cutting a loaf of bread and the bride and groom eating it. There were several other special dances that happened during the evening.
Dinner began with salad and rolls. One of the things with a wedding of this size is it took quite a while for the wait staff to server the entire tent with each course. Due to this people who got fed first were done and ready to get up and moving before the last people even got their meals. People were mingling throughout the night. One of the options for the main course was Alaskan King Salmon. All of which was caught by Kelly's parents. They have a boat and a commercial fishing license in Sitka, AK. Neither Kelly or I are big seafood fans so we got the beef entree. Almost everyone else had the salmon though.
After cutting the cake they began to bring around the primary dessert that was like a mini apple pie. It was very good. I wasn't sure if or when they would be bringing the real cake. It was already getting late so Kelly walked me to my car. I left a little after 8 PM and started home. I had to stop for gas (full service required in NJ) and cash to pay tolls on the way home.
Traffic on the way home wasn't too bad most of the way. When I got the Delaware / Maryland border though I came to a screeching halt. The toll booth leaving DE was backed up for miles. It took me at least an hour to go a few miles. As a result it took me over 4 hours to get home and I finally go to bed about 12:30.
Kelly and her parent's stayed in the rented house until Friday. She had a tough week of laying on the beach and reading. A couple of friends came to spend time since I couldn't take time off from work. When she came back her parents and I went out to dinner before they flew out Saturday morning.
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